Today is vent day regarding control freaks. The worst thing about control freaks is that they NEVER see themselves as being a control freak. They say things like; "I'm not doing anything wrong!", "I'm not going to be told what to do by anyone!", "If only they would do what I say!" In my experience, there are two kinds of control freaks. #1 - The always angry, "I'll blow up if I don't get what I want when I want it", type and #2 - The silent manipulating, "I'll just refuse to do or say anything until I get what I want", type. Both types are very hard to deal with because you are either being yelled at or completely ignored. Which means what for the issue at hand? You either give in to the "CF" or get nothing from them at all regarding the issue. Unfortunately, they truly believe they can do no wrong just as strongly as they believe no one else can do anything right, or at least not as well as they can. They can always fine fault and room for improvement with others but never in themselves. For you to even suggest that they might be the ones who should possibly consider changing anything about themselves is a total waste of time. Why you may ask?..... You got it!.... One blows up at you and the other walks away from you refusing to even discuss it. My personal favorite among both types is; "I just don't understand what your problem is, what did I do?" Cracks me up every time I think about it! Of course in the middle of trying to deal with it, it is anything but funny. I really do wish that people had the ability to see themselves as others do. Put themselves in others shoes so to speak. I'm pretty sure there would be more fairness among us if we could.
Have a wonderful day,
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